Sunday, January 28, 2024

SOUL CONFIDENCE

 

Be Positive

Stand at greater heights of Soul-confidence to win yourself as well as other's hearts.

Take every waking hour as it comes and do what you are supposed to do and complete what you're supposed to complete. Stop over-analyzing or trying to predict and plan things too far. The only constant thing in life is change. Just live in the moment and do your best.
The first step to become happy is to feel comfortable in your own skin. Everyone was born with a flaw. No one is perfect. Accept yourself with what you're born - with whether it be your background, your skin, your nose, your eyes or any other thing. You have to accept yourself for who you are and love yourself.
It is the only one fact which eliminates happiness from everyone's life - which is really very disappointing. Because if you are not comfortable in your own skin, this becomes your biggest concern that stays on the top of your mind everyday -- it kills your self-esteem, your self-confidence, and the happiness that comes from within. The relationship that you share with yourself is the most important relationship - above all other relations and if you can't make peace with your inner self, it will keep bothering your heart, mind and the soul as well.
If you find it hard - only because some other people discriminate or make judgements about you. In such cases, you need to maintain physical and mental distance from people who are shallow and narrow-minded. Better STAY AWAY FROM NEGATIVITY and waste thoughts, words and actions of such other people. You are definitely better than those persons. Prove to them and to yourself that you are capable and talented in so many other ways. Surround yourself with such people who possess the same values and qualities as you have and leave behind such people who possess all negative and waste attitudes.

Teach A Man to walk with God and You Help Him solve the Rest of His Life !!

You will many a times  run into unfortunate situations of life -such situations are out of your control. You can choose to feel sad, annoyed, angry or stressed about the situation or turn it around and focus on the positive parts of life. You can choose to be stuck in a bad or negative situation or let go, move on and start with a new series of positive opportunities in your life.
Let's learn from a failure or a bad experience and never repeat the same mistake. Every setback and bad situation in life teaches you something. Growth doesn't occur in comfort. You need to come out of your comfort zone to bring something great happen in your life. Take it as an opportunity to train your mind- to be stronger, more resilient, and more equipped - to be able to deal with things that life throws at you. There's a Chinese idiom - "A frog in the well" - which points out towards such people who can't / don't see the bigger picture around because of their narrow-mindedness or rather close-mindedness.
Most of the time you hold onto anger because you believe it would make the person you're mad at, upset and realize that they have done something wrong. But the fact, is that you are actually hanging up yourself on something that's burning you within. When you're mad at someone, the pain is onto yourself more than it is onto the person you're mad at. When you hate someone, the fire is within your own mind. No matter what one does to you -- hurt you, look down on you, underestimate you, backstab you, abuse you, or cheat you -- when you hold the hatred, you hold the hurt. Only when you learn to let go, you let your soul free from the pain. No matter what it was that caused them to take certain negative actions towards you, the best thing you can do is to "let go". It will be hard to do if you've never done it before. But slowly, one day at a time, be patient, let it go, forgive those who've done you wrong, you will feel that each day you get stronger and more powerful.
If you're struggling to "let go", start with meditation. Even meditation is hard because you need to control yourself. You need not think anything while meditating -- but that's the key! Being able to control one's thoughts and focus and keep one's mind at peace strengthens the mind's muscles -- this is the secret power of meditation.
The fire is only within you. The person you hate doesn't feel your hatred. "Let it go". "Let it go".
Many of us worry. We worry about our future -- about our career, health, living, finances, and about the people we love. We worry because we are scared - scared of losing them, scared of missing them. However, worrying doesn't make anything better unless we stop worrying and start taking actions towards our goals. If you're worried about your health when you get older, then you should start eating healthy and exercising regularly. If you're worried about your finances, then you should start saving up for the rainy days. If you're worried about your kids, then encourage them to take actions to help you ease your worries.
Remember that worrying about your loved ones doesn't actually make them better. It only affects your health and you. Your loved ones will need to take actions themselves. All you can do is to encourage them and help them move towards the right direction.
We don't want to accept that we are wrong because it makes us feel rejected and unaccepted. The non-acceptance of truth increases our stress and diminishes our self-confidence. And, self-confidence is equivalent to soul-confidence. With subsequent cycles of positive, negative and waste thinking process, we mingle up every aspect of our life - thus, leading to degradation of Soul-confidence. When, there is lesser quantity of soul (self)-confidence, there are more chances of losing / missing all those things / persons in our life whom we consider to be inseparable from ourselves. Here, ourselves stands for the Soul (Human Being).

Stand at greater heights of Soul-confidence to win yourself as well as other's hearts.

Saturday, January 20, 2024

TO FORGIVE IS DIVINE

 GOD FORGIVES
GOD IS OCEAN OF MERCY


TO FORGIVE IS DIVINITY.
 We have read/ heard about the basic seven divine virtues and eight divine powers of God.
The Seven Divine virtues are- Knowledge, peace, purity, love, happiness, bliss and power. 
The Divine powers are- 
(1) Power to Tolerate
(2) Power to Face situation
(3) Power to Imbibe/ inculcate/ embed
(4) Power to Co-operate
(5) Power to withdraw from negativity
(6) Power to pack-up
(7) Power to discriminate / differentiate
(8) Power to Decide - and stand along with the Truth

The world is a drama. We all are mere players in this world drama. We believe in portraying our roles to our best. God is holding the reigns of the actors and actresses in his own hands. He has decided how each actor has to portray his role. We, as players / actors uselessly invest our intellect & energy in activating the present actions. Lay down your hands & body in surrendrance -"God, I am Yours. I am Yours. I am Yours. God use me as your arm/ your pen/ your puppet  for performing your action/ writing your script/ for portraying your lead roles in the book of Universe. God make me your own device to accomplish your tasks. God make me your truthful, pious, loveful, intellectual, peaceful, blissful instrument for accomplishing all your tasks."

"God, undoubtedly, I share all my relations with You. In the past, I may have committed few or more mistakes intentionally or unintentionally. I, truthfully and whole-heartedly surrender to God - all my past actions, present actions along with all the future and upcoming actions that I will perform in the future time as Your (God's) Eligible Human in the utmost Flawless manner."
In human Birth, we Human souls have our Fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, grandparents, friends, relatives, loved ones, Dear & Near ones. At some point of time, in case of any faults or mistakes, these humans with whom we share either blood relations or relation of knowings - they forget our mistakes and forgive us. Either they forgive us giving some punishment or penalty or it's in due course of time which makes the human souls forgive all bad experiences faced sometime in the past and they forgive each other. Generally, the virtuous people have the courage, patience along with pure heart to forgive the mistakes committed by other people. So, to forgive - the divine virtues of God needs to be embedded within us with a pure heart and intellect. When few people can forgive us instantly, definitely God forgives us most instantaneously. 
To Err is Human;
To Forgive is Divine;
Hence, this is Divine Inspiration.

Believe in God's virtues so that you can forgive others

In our human lives, there are certain incidents which are hard to be forgotten and forgiven. Even, if our relatives forget and forgive, the guiltiness within us remains alive for long. The proper remedy to overcome such guiltiness is to - surrender and take away forgiveness from the Almighty Authority. God is merciful, he forgives - all mistakes of every soul committed in the Universe. He uses his divine powers to make the souls console, forget all past/ present mistakes committed and erases with the Eraser of His Love & Mercy all traces of mistakes done and pain felt due to such mistakes. God's pure love and flawless care is above all ointments, all therapies and every other known remedy in the field of Science or Universe.

God is Merciful. With His flawless purity, love, care, mercy- He nourishes us continuously and Erects us as His Most Eligible Human for performing all his tasks in the Universe beneficial for the service of mankind and Humanity.

"With pious & loveful Heart and Intellect- Believe Me and God, We all are God's Actors and Actresses. God is constantly nourishing us with the warmth of His divine virtues and Divine Powers."

Sunday, July 24, 2022

Don't Get Punished By Your Anger

 Don't Get Punished By Your Anger

Lord Gautam Buddha says:

"You will not be punished for your anger;

 You will be punished by your anger."

Anger is a major enemy of self. Under various conditions, we wish to use our knowledge and intellect in the best manner, especially during conditions of uncertainty and instability, but ANGER – our anger controls our mind and destroys our knowledge and restricts to use it wisely. Anger itself is a vital form of punishment. The most amazing fact about anger is that others can never punish us for our anger rather it’s our own anger which punishes ourselves in the most pitiful manner. Sometimes, even the sympathetic condition is surpassed. Anger destroys the very essence of our life. During many situations, getting out of control due to anger reverses the end result of such situations where, even deadly results can be expected (due to eruption of volcano of anger). In terms of anger, generally we find there exists three categories of people in the society. Let’s elaborate such people:

1.)  First category – Those people fall in this category who cannot control any bit of their anger. Such persons suffer from many diseases especially hypertension which may later lead to severe heart problems.

2.)  Second category - Those people fall in this category who try to control bits of their anger outwardly. At situations, such people try to control their anger in order to keep the situation within their grip or control. But, inwardly, they are unable to manage the anger. Manage the anger – here, means to restrict your anger from harming yourself – your mental health as well as the physical health. Such people keep on repeating within themselves almost every bit of the awkward situation and are unable to get themselves out of the unfavourable situation.  Such people suffer from lots of distress within themselves and they are unaware when they fall prey to severe mental and physical diseases.

3.)  Third category – Very few people fall in this category. People who readily do not accept gifts from others – gifts of unwanted gossip and unfavourable situations from others - are the ones who do not fall prey to their as well as other’s anger. Such wise people understand that the situations created either by their own activities or by other’s activities are mere temporary scenes created for entertainment. So, such people do not become a part of unwanted situations and keep themselves away and safe from everyone’s bits of anger. These people remain calm outwardly as well as inwardly – for self and others.

Instead of reacting to situations by eruption of volcano of anger, these people shower divine blessings of peace, knowledge, purity and benevolent feelings of The Almighty Authority over every person who stand in a queue ready to fall prey to ANGER -  anger of self or others – hardly matters. Such people themselves are actually fulfilled to the fullest with God’s divine virtues.

Very practically, we all human beings should try to judge ourselves impartially. Till date, may be, we used to fall in the first category of people but henceforth, we should try to  makeup ourselves as one who stands first in the third category of persons. Have faith on self and God, practice makes a man perfect. We can definitely, try to overcome our anger and reserve a place/ seat for ourselves in the third category of people where only few people have occupied their seats, rest all seats are kept vacant – for us to occupy, following the path of Divinity – Divinity of The Almighty Authority.

  •    Keep on repeating end number of times - I am a Peaceful soul

  •    The peaceful vibrations of The Almighty will be showered upon me, the soul.
  •  By and by, I will get surrounded with complete peaceful vibrations of the Almighty.
  •   I will feel peace within myself – inward as well as outward.
  •    All my body organs will feel and experience the peace of the Almighty – as if cool, calm rays of peace are entering all my body organs.
  •   Maybe, I feel the same when I stand at the seashore experiencing the cool breeze of the sea / ocean.
  • At times, I may feel the warmth of the peaceful vibrations of the Almighty – as if I am facing the Sun and experiencing deep within me the warmth of the Sun rays.
  •  The people surrounding us will also experience the magic of such peaceful vibrations of the Almighty.

  •  The bubbles of anger will settle down slowly, thus spreading the peaceful rays of The Almighty in the surrounding atmosphere.
  • How to Stay Away from Anger