God is the Supreme Soul and we all human beings are Souls.
God is the Almighty Authority and we all human beings are his children. As
God’s children, we all human beings are brothers. Thus, we all share universal
brotherhood.
God is an ocean of virtues. We, as God’s children, automatically
inherit all the divine virtues of our most beloved GOD – equally share all
relationships with him irrespective of gender, caste, creed, race or religion. Very
much similar to God, we all souls are :
*Master
knowledgeful
*Master
peaceful
*Master
purity
*Master
loveful
*Master
happiness
*Master
blissful
*Master
powerful
We all souls are always full of each and every power of God.
When the souls are completely full
of God’s all powers, it’s Satopradhan stage of the souls(Golden era of souls).
When the powers of God within the
souls start diminishing to some extent, it’s Rajopradhan stage of the
soul (Silver
era of souls).
When the powers of God within the
soul continue to diminish day by day, as in case of today’s time, until the
soul gets itself completely deprived of all divine qualities of God, it’s the Tamopradhan
stage of the souls (Iron
era of souls).
Where is the temporary
and permanent address of pain/ sorrow/ fear?
What is the role of pain/ sorrow/ fear in one's life?
What is the ultimate
goal of pain/ sorrow/ fear?
What are the factors that cause pain/ sorrow/ fear?
What are the factors that can help to reducethe pain/ sorrow/ fear?
What is the only proper remedy to overcome the pain/ sorrow/ fear factor - Unconditional and complete surrendrance of myself to the Almighty Authority.
PAIN/ SORROW Everyday, all of us, come across the most familiar terms of our life- pain/ sorrow. Early, as soon as, I wake up in the morning and get along with the daily core activities of my life - I start feeling Pain within myself. The pain is not in the arm or leg or elsewhere in any physical organ i.e. the pain is not physical but it's mental. Somewhere, in my mind or in my heart, I start feeling the pain or sorrow or rather fear. In our lives, we face pain/ sorrow due to two basic activities - firstly, due to our actions done in the past and secondly, due to the actions being donein the present time i.e. the actions performed by us in our everyday moments.
Great Men say - Feeling pain is the key to feel Happiness and Freedom. For a layman, like you and me, pain is the worst feeling in one's life. We, ourselves have made pain so common in our lives that pain has replaced salt in our daily meals. Now, instead of adding adequate quantity of salt in our everyday meals, what we do? We add sometimes more, sometimes less Pain in our meals - either at the time of cooking, our mothers do or at the time of eating, we ourselves do. The above means- pain has caught hold of all our small bits of happiness. In earlier times, we all used to put efforts to spend time with our family members - sharing our good or bitter experiences. The time spent together was enough to be happy for all the family members. But today, pain has replaced our togetherness. All family members due to some or other issues are filled with sorrow and pain. So, instead of spending quality time with our family members, we feel relaxed being alone/ aloof. Being alone - with our pain/ stress/ tension/ mental irritation. In today's era, the pain causing factors are simply endless. Even a Nursery class child says he/ she has so much of task to do that he / she is filled with tension. At home, his mother gives work to do; in school, his teacher gives daily class work and homework; his music teacher tells him to practise all musical traits on daily basis. So, the nursery class child is fully occupied - mentally and says He is having so much of tension. Listen to Mom, Obey your teacher, Respect your grandma, etc. If we talk about elders, imagine every moment spent and every task started with or accomplished with - gives pain accompanied with stress, tension and finally Sorrow.
If the task ends up well, sorrow gets transformed to Peace, Happiness, Bliss. This gets possible when we combine - the work started & accomplished by us - with the Divine virtues and powers of the Almighty Authority.
Explanation :
How to get rid of pain in the present (by our present actions): The moment we assign any piece of work to ourselves, immediately surrender that particular work to the Almighty Authority. As discussed, we are mere players in the hands of the Almighty Authority. It is God, who makes us to complete His Piece of Work - we need to remind this to ourselves every moment. We say, I am doing my work or I have a lot of work to do for myself and my family or at the workplace. Let's correct ourselves - it's not my piece of work to do - it's God's piece of work which he wants to be done by me; God wants me or rather God has appointed me to accomplish his this particular piece of work. Eg. If I am working as a Teacher in any one of the schools in the city. But I never wanted to work as a Teacher in any school, still under some circumstances, I am performing the task of/ role of a Teacher in that particular school. Why am I doing something which I never wanted to do? Why am I agreeing to the wish of Almighty - to work as a Teacher in that school? The answer to first question is - We are mere players in the hands of the Almighty. What to do, when to do, where to do, how to do - all depends on the Almighty - how He wants his work to be accomplished and by whom. The reply to second question is - I am agreeing to the wish of the Almighty because I am fully surrendered to Him unconditionally. I want to do only that piece of work which the Almighty wants me to do irrespective of my choice, my interest, my ability or my need or necessity. The moment I perform the task which God wants me to do - it forms a positive action for my life. On the other hand, the moment I disagree to perform a particular piece of work assigned for me by the Almighty - I react to that situation instead of silent acceptance for the action - this forms a negative action for my life. This present action (rather reaction) for declining (not accepting) the work forms the reason or cause for pain/ sorrow in the future actions of my life.Here is a flowchart to show the method - how to overcome/ lessen the pain or sorrow created by our own actions being done in the present time/ present moment of our life.
Steps to be followed unconditionally to get rid of pain/
sorrow (in our present day actions) :
CONCLUSION-
Before beginning with any work / new work, I remind
myself – I am a
Knowledgeful Soul. Then, I start a work, continue with the work,
finally complete the work. Whatever is the end result- is as decided by
God because with utmost faith
& belief, I had surrendered the work & it's successful result to the
Almighty.To
be more practical, I have done the work of the Almighty so the end result is His
concern. Let me be at peace internally.I am A Peaceful Soul!I am A Pious Soul.In case, the work ends up with a negative result,
RELAX, it's God's wish to have a negative effect of that particular work
on few people who perceive the result of the action directly and
immediately. But, to be very sure, the end result of the work in due course of time will be most fruitful
and sweetest for all and everyone in the whole universe. We are well
acquainted with Nature’s Law which says – Every act on this Earth is for the benefit of all- today or
tomorrow. The manner & time of benefit differs for one and all.
Maybe, today the result is good for me, for someone it’s not equally beneficial
today but definitely, it’ll prove beneficial in the future time for one and
all. For this, the divine
virtues of patience, humility, knowledge with immense faith & love for God
is required.
So, Relax, even if the work ends up with any Negative
outcome, God will take care of the same provided you
whole-heartedly surrendered the work & it’s outcome to the Almighty without
any feeling of selfishness for yourself. Remember, complete unconditional
surrendrance to God is mandatory else, you have to again suffer the pain / sorrow – even if the
result ends up with a positive outcome. Why? Why will I suffer if the result
ends positively, in that case I would be the happiest for accomplishing the
task successfully. Because,
the end result of the work is not as per God’s wish. I could not
complete the work in the manner as God wanted me to do, I added my own thoughts
to the work which acted as impurity to the work and the end result varied from
that as God wanted / expected. The expected result would be beneficial
for all creatures of the Universe butthe result which I brought would be beneficial only to a handful people
– only to those people whom we love, we know and we are aware of.
According
to Hindu
Astrology, there are 36 divine virtues in every man and woman i.e. in every human
being. And, during arranging marriages, the horoscope of a particular man is
matched with that particular woman with whom the marriage has been arranged. It
is popularly believed the more number of virtues match with each other, the
better it is for the togetherness of the would-be couples. It is generally
believed that for a perfect couple match , the more and more number of virtues as
per Astrology, should be compatiblewith
each other (man and woman) to lead an ever happy life of togetherness.
Perfect Couple Match
As per Hindu
Mythology, it was Lord Ram and Goddess Sita whose
horoscopes matched for all 36 divine virtues. Lord Ram was the reincarnation of
Lord Vishnu and Goddess Sita was the reincarnation of Goddess Lakshmi.
In fact,
in every era, it’s not the Astrology-match or the Horoscope-match which leads
for an everlasting togetherness relationship rather it’s the possession
of these 36 Divine Virtues and
their exhibitionin every
moment / incident of life. Each person can become virtuous only by adapting
these divine virtues in one’s life. To make all relationships go on with SWEETNESS,TRUST, WORTHINESS we need to imbibe and inculcate these Godly 36
virtues within ourselves.
The FACT remains the same that these
divine virtues are possessed by every person but very few persons exhibit them.The reason behind this firm belief
is the FACT that every person knows the difference between RIGHT and WRONG , TRUTH and
FALSE, GOOD and EVIL, HELL and HEAVEN.
So, here’s
a list of these 36 divine virtues -
Imbibe the Divine Virtues Within Yourself
1.Good
wishes
2.Generosity
3.Honesty
4.Humility
5.Lightness
6.Mercy
7.Obedience
8.Patience
9.Purity
10.Royalty
11.Self-confidence
12.Simplicity
13.Sweetness
14.Discipline
15.Carefree
16.Cleanliness
17.Cheerfulness
18.Contentment
19.Courage
20.Cooperation
21.Tolerance
22.Tirelessness
23.Accuracy
24.Appreciation
25.Benevolence
26.Detachment
27.Determination
28.Easiness
29. Egolessness
30.Energetic
31.Farsightedness
32.Fearlessness
33.Maturity
34.Tolerance
35.Introspection
36.Orderliness
Divine Virtues to be embedded within ourselves
A brief description of these 36 divine virtues can be -
1.Good
wishes – Have good wishes for all.
2.Generosity
– Be generous towards all.
3.Honesty
– Be honest in your work and in all your relationships.
4.Humility
– Be humble towards everyone.
5.Lightness
– Be light, stressfree and burdenless.
6.Mercy
– Be merciful towards all creatures.
7.Obedience–Be
obedient towards God, elders, other respectable ones and most importanttowards YOU (yourself).
8.Patience
– Be patient towards circumstances, relations and YOU.
9.Purity
– Have pure thoughts towards All, use pure words, show pure actions for All including YOU.
10.Royalty – Be royal in your thoughts,
words and actions.
11.Self-confidence
– Have 100% self-confidence on yourself and your GOD.
12.Simplicity – Believe in “Simple
living and High thinking”.
13.Sweetness – Maintain sweetness in
your words and relationships.
14.Discipline – Let Discipline be your most adorable and admirable Ornament.
15.Carefree – Leave everything high-up
in the hands of the most beloved God.
16.Cleanliness – Have clarity in your
vision and cleanliness in your thoughts, words and actions.
17.Cheerfulness – Always be cheerful
irrespective of the situations and circumstances.
18.Contentment –Always be satisfied,
as, THE BEST IS ALWAYS FOR ME (given by MY LORD).
19.Courage – Be courageous in all
situations because GOD is always your
COMPANION and GUIDE.
20.Cooperation – Cooperate with
everyone irrespective of the situations as it’s
The Lord who is my companion, colleague, guide and mate.
21.Tolerance – Try to tolerate other
people’s words & actions, develop and intensify Tolerance Power within.
22.Tirelessness – Don’t get tired, Life
is not tiresome but Life is a tireless
journey, it’s a pilgrimage
and you are the pilgrims.
23.Accuracy – Be accurate in your words
and follow them accurately in your actions.
24.Appreciation – Appreciate others
even at their minutest good works in order to uphold others dignity and motivate them. On the
other hand, don’t expect appreciation or
praise for yourself even at the highest achievement.
25.Benevolence – Have good and pure
feelings for everyone irrespective of others’ goodness or evilness.
26.Detachment – Be detached in all of
your actions. While performing actions, do not think of the output or the result. Most important, don’t
associate yourself much with
the result rather be focused on the input and processing.
27.Determination – Have firm
determination to always follow the path of truthfulness, honesty and dedication.
28.Easiness – Let things around you go
on at an easy pace, don’t make the surroundings complex for
you and others to breathe in.
29.Egolessness – Uproot ego from within, Get rid of the idea – I am
Superior to others.
30.Energetic – Always be full of positive energy in your
thoughts, words and actions. Derive this
positive energy from the only source of positivity – The Almighty Lord.
31.Farsightedness – Have greater, higher vision – which will be
beneficial for all. You will observe
Lord is your all-time Companion and Guide.
32.Fearlessness – Don’t be afraid of
the up-sailing storms in your life, for God is your sailor.
33.Maturity – Only mature actions yield sweet fruits, the
immature actions never bear sweet, edible
and easily digestible fruits.
34.Politeness – Be polite towards all
whomsoever you come across.
35.Introspection – Talk to yourself and Your Lord about your
everyday thoughts, words and actions.
“Are they as per the directives given by your Lord?”
36.Orderliness
– Firstly, keep your things in order. Try to be organized in managing your
daily things and
activities. Then automatically, the
incidents in life get placed in order (By
the grace of The Almighty).
